In this episode of The Alt Dad Diary podcast, Ryan Loveeachother speaks with his partner Kate Loveeachother. The married couple discusses their string of recent conflicts surrounding proper dishwashing. This seemingly trivial point of disagreement launches a larger discussion. What does it mean to “see” or “understand” your partner? Is long-term monogamy (aka marriage) a wise endeavor given the chameleon-like nature of desire? What does one beer, two brownies, three slices of Marco’s pepperoni pizza and a lungful of honesty sound like?